Fighting to Belong: Building Places Where Everyone Can with Vibushan Thirukumar
What if the place you built was the one you needed growing up?
"It comes from being told no, being told to reduce yourself, and working for people who don't give a shit about your future, your culture, or the environment, or your community. And it comes from that place of, Fuck me, we have got to start doing something about this now."
Vibushan Thirukumar doesn't mince words.
The co-founder and CEO of Oru Space carries the weight of displacement, the memory of bunkers and burnt houses, and the fury of watching brilliant people conform to spaces that werenât designed for them.
This isnât a founder story about scaling and exits.
Itâs a raw, essential conversation about what happens when someone who fled war as a toddler, grew up angry in Berrylands, and failed university at 21, decides to build places where no one has to shrink themselves to fit in.
Vibushan talks about what it means to create genuine belonging, not as a marketing slogan, but as a form of resistance.
About why coworking is becoming a property play for landlords and what it takes to hold the line.
About spending locally, designing for diversity, and taking a stand on Gaza while others stay silent.
We move from the Sri Lankan civil war to Sutton High Street.
From racist neighbours to 45,000 square feet of community. From anger to purpose.
From military metaphors to the language of care. From algorithmic distraction to human connection.
This episode is for anyone whoâs been told to reduce themselvesâand chose not to.
For anyone trying to build something real in their local area without losing their soul in the process.
And for anyone wondering what coworking could still be.
đ°ď¸ Timeline Highlights
[00:06] Bernie introduces Unreasonable Connection â a networking event for people who hate networking
[01:10] Vibushan introduces himself as co-founder of Oru Space, with 60 staff and 700 members across workspace and programs.
[02:02] âIâd like to be known for not shying away from the discomfort and difficulties of being a first-generation personâ
[04:43] The source of Oruâs "Wakanda energy" â being told no and deciding to act anyway
[06:00] "The coworking industry used to be purposeful. Now itâs becoming a property play."
[07:13] Coworking as local economy: know your neighbours, stop commuting for no reason
[09:41] Born in Trincomalee during the war, fleeing to the UK at two years old
[12:51] The council flat years â the happiest time, full of real community
[14:45] Suburban racism, school alienation, growing up angry
[16:46] The 21-year-old realisation: "My life is shit. Iâve achieved nothing."
[23:45] âWe donât ask you to reduce yourselfâ â the design philosophy behind Oru
[26:17] Why language matters: from âacquisitionâ to actual community
[27:07] Taking a stand on Gaza: "That could have been me"
[33:41] Technology as the real enemy: echo chambers, manipulation, distraction
[37:59] The solution is painfully simple: grow local, eat local, trade local
[38:26] Final reflections on hope, property, and building forward from belonging
𧹠Thematic Breakdown
The Tamil War Most People Donât Know About
Vibushan was born during Sri Lankaâs civil war, under British-induced divisions that left generations scarred.
His familyâs escapeâhiding in bunkers while their home burnedâbegan a lifelong journey of seeking safety and voice.
From Council Flat Joy to Suburban Exile
The Kingston council flat was a real community. Berrylands wasnât.
As soon as his family stepped into a whiter, wealthier suburb, things got harder: racism, silence, cold neighbours, and school staff who saw less in him than was there.
What Language Does to Belonging
What happens when you train staff to think in terms like "acquisition" instead of âneighbourâ? The words we use shape how we see peopleâand how we treat them. Especially in coworking.
When Itâs Not Just Business
This isnât theory. Oru raised money for Gaza, cut suppliers complicit in destruction, and built infrastructure-level support into its operations. Itâs not easy. Itâs necessary.
Belonging By Design
Some spaces are built to flatten you. Some let you be anonymous. Othersâlike Oruâlet you arrive and not know who youâre supposed to be. That disorientation is a gift: it gives people permission to be themselves.
Real Neighbours, Real Community
Forget the startup showroom. When you spend ÂŁ1 locally, it circles four times through your community. When you spend it with a chain, itâs gone. Belonging is economic, not just emotional.
đ Links & Resources
Oru Space Website
Vibushanâs Oru Newsletter đľđ¸
Connect with Vibushan on LinkedIn
Oru Space on Instagram
AI for Coworking Quiz
Unreasonable Connection â Sign up on Luma
John Alexanderâs Citizenship Book
Coworking Values Podcast on LinkedIn
European Coworking Day
Workspace Design Show
LinkedIn Coworking Group
Connect with Bernie
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